We’ve been on holiday

We were on holiday last week but just over a week before that, we went to Dartmoor with friends and walked up to Haytor then later up to Emsworthy Mire. I took some pretty fantastic (for me) photos, the majority of which Paul deleted because they weren’t up to his standard.

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Pony!! One of the few photos which made it

We went to Emsworthy Mire because we wanted to catch a glimpse of some rare species which are supposed to be there. Not long after arriving we heard a Cuckoo’s call and decided to sneak over to get a photo. Annoyingly the bloody bird outsmarted us every step of the way and when we got close, it would sneakily take off. We trekked miles after this bird and even saw someone else get close enough to take pictures of it. I could see it using the camera on full zoom but not with the naked eye. We did manage to get a picture but it wasn’t a very good one.

Sneaky Cuckoo

Sneaky Cuckoo

We’ve been away for a week and had a nice time in Northern Ireland. It’s been a long time coming as I haven’t been in around six years. I grew up in Newcastle, Co Down and moved back to England when I was 13 so my best friend, Holly, is over there and it’s been great seeing her again.

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The Dark Hedges

We started our holiday on Monday and flew from Exeter to Belfast and travelled up to Portstewart and stayed there for one night before heading down and spending the rest of our stay in Belfast. We had each day planned out and we got it all done and more which I was pleased with but we still could have done with a couple more days to see it all.

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A rainy Giant’s Causeway selfie

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We did have some bad news whilst in Portstewart. On Tuesday morning we got an email from the architect saying that he wouldn’t be able to come to the appointment on Monday because the building company had not provided full instructions for him. Obviously we weren’t impressed at having to deal with this on our holiday, especially after how rubbish the building company had been with us. Paul phoned and emailed the building company asking them to sort it out because we were on holiday and we had both made sure we had Monday off from work for this appointment.

The response came about 30 minutes later. The owner of the company, Dave, emailed and said that they were no longer using the architect and instead offered us a refund.  When we calculated the full amount we’d paid them – roughly £1700 – and got back to Dave to confirm the full refund amount (owing the the fact we’d have to start from scratch with another building company and architect) he suddenly changed his tune and offered to keep up as a client and use another architect instead. We politely declined and said we’d like the refund instead and miraculously have not heard anything since. Fantastic.

When we got home at around 16:30 on Sunday, we did a little bit of gardening because the grass was over a foot high in some places. It was a bit long for a mower but we strimmed the whole thing and pulled out a great many dandelions and seven or eight Sumac (Rhus typhina) saplings that the tree keeps sending out. Stupid tree. We cut off one of its branches when it was in the way and ever since we’ve had a constant stream of new saplings. Originally I wanted to get rid of the tree but I don’t think we will ever be able to.

Whilst pulling out some weeds between the paving slabs I found something that made me happy. At first glimpse I thought he was a funny coloured worm so I pulled him out and then realised what I had actually found.

I managed to quickly snap this on my phone whilst I sent Paul in for his camera

I managed to quickly snap this on my phone whilst I sent Paul in for his camera

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Cute 🙂

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This little guy is a baby slow worm. I like slow worms, I think they’re rather cute, and I’m hoping he may be the offspring of one of the three slowworms we released into our garden in July. I think slow worms reproduce in the summer and that baby ones are born around August/ September, so this little guy may not even be a year old! He quickly slithered off and hid in amongst the many ants and woodlice (which I suspect he would later eat).

The other slow worms we’ve come across have all got names (Mr Slidey, Nag, Nagaina and Nagini) but I’ve not thought of one of this little dude yet.

Tally

On the 30th December our world was turned upside-down when we lost my much beloved dog, Tally.

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I first met and handled Tally in the summer of 2004 when she was around two weeks old.  she was my friend’s dog, Pip’s, puppy, and she was smaller than the palm of my hand and her eyes had just started to open. At this early stage in life she was almost all white bar the black patches on her face and hip and she suckled on my finger.  At this stage though I could only hope this little one would be mine.

At four weeks I’d managed to talk my parents into letting me have a dog (at the cost of giving up my six years worth of horse riding to save money) and we went to see her  and her siblings again.  By now she was a little more lively and was very interested in meeting us all.  She was the ‘runt’ of the litter and we fell in love with her.

Sadly though before she was ready to come home with us, we had bad news; my dad was made redundant and we were unable to afford her.  I was heartbroken. Mum promised we would go to a shelter and get another dog and she phoned my friend’s mum Oriel to explain and apologise for any trouble this caused.

My mum ended the call and came to see me, crying, because Oriel had kindly offered us Tally for free, saying that she wasn’t in it for the money; it was more important for the puppies to have a loving home, which she knew we would be.  We were so grateful.

So at eight weeks we brought our Tally home and our lives changed. That summer I hardly left her side and I couldn’t wait until she was fully inoculated so I could take her into the forest behind our house.  I even used to walk her on the lead around the perimeter of the garden in the hope that she’d walk perfectly on a lead when we took her out for the first time (no such luck).

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My brother and I pose with Tally (around 3 months?) in the garden

It wasn’t all perfect, as you can imagine, there were many ‘accidents’ as we were training her to pee and poop outside instead of on the newspaper as she was used to. We probably shouldn’t even go into all the things she did when she was teething – though I’ll never forget the telling off I got when she’d chewed a gaping hole in the upstairs landing carpet on my watch (in my defence, I did a very good job of disguising the damage).

The puppy classes we used to take her to were frustrating, we were always sat next to a very nervous fox terrier who used to used to bark a lot and once she started, Tally would follow and soon enough others would follow their example.  We also discovered cocker spaniels are not the most obedient breed of dog (that’s our defence and we’re sticking to it).

Around this time, too, my mother and I had a very long game of ‘catch the (dead) pigeon’ which was in Tally’s mouth.  The pigeon just appeared in our garden and we can only guess it just fell out of the sky.  Tally decided she liked this new toy and was not going to give it up.  I’ve never seen her run so fast around the garden, which quickly looked like a pillow fight had taken place In it.  She lost the game after she started choking on all the feathers – giving us time to grab her, pull the feathers out of her nose and throat- then shamefully call on our neighbour, Lesley to actually pick up the dead bird for us.

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Miffed after her first groom

She was hardly alone that year as shortly after my dad found another job, my grandmother came to visit from England and suffered a heart attack whilst with us.  This  resulted in a long stay in hospital and an even longer one with us before she was allowed back on a plane.  She became very attached to Tally who spent most of the day next to her.  Both my uncles and my great aunt also came to visit my grandma and stay.  We also hosted another aunt and uncle with my two cousins prior to this so Tally spent most of her puppy-hood around people getting a lot of attention, something she always loved

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Tally racing along Murlough beach

 

Less than a year after getting Tally, we moved to England. I have to admit, Tally had a bit of a better deal in Ireland with the large garden, the forest, beach and mountains all within walking distance.

She was a naughty little rascal most of the time and she loved to sneak upstairs, empty bins, have naps on the furniture and run away.  Mum was once mortified when Tally squeezed through to a neighbouring garden and dug the biggest hole Mum had ever seen around a poor little hedgehog who had rolled up into a tight ball.  Tally was covered I so much mud you could not see the colour of her.

She had her moments though and once stopped us from being burgled after a couple men came in through the back door one night and she chased them all the way up the street barking wildly until they jumped into an awaiting car and sped off.

She even “protected” us from the postman, the window cleaner, passers by, cars and most strangers who came to visit.!

 

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Messy

Tally was never happier when she was at a beach or woods, which probably related back to her puppyhood in Ireland.  Even in her last year, she still resorted to being a puppy as soon as she saw a beach or woods and would run and run.  She loved visits to our caravan in Cornwall, attempting to catch the rabbits and paddling in all the rock pools.
Tally never got the hang of returning a ball.  In fact she preferred the game ‘run away with the ball and bury it where it can’t be found.’  We never quite understood her logic but she loved the game and there are many, many tennis balls safely hidden for other dogs to find one day.
She loved her toys, particularly cuddly toys and every day she would bring them in one by one until she persuaded someone to play with her.  She also loved dragging her blankets into the lounge.

Tally had a penchant for causing trouble, she was often found rummaging through the bin, stealing food (from someone else’s barbecue at one time) and she always lurked around people’s feet at dinner time – determined to consume any dropped morsels.  If she was told off for lurking, she would move about a foot away and continue lurking thinking this was now okay.

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She was such a character: so clever, funny and loving and her passing away has left a gaping Tally-shaped hole in many of us.

Little bits, here and there

I haven’t written in a while now, though in fairness not an awful lot of progress has been made on the house, in that time.

Shire shed

We do now finally have an erected shed, Shire sent us the missing parts within the week. We weren’t able to finish it off right away and it had a tarp roof for a fortnight or two, which meant that after a few bouts of real British weather we experienced some shed floods. Paul and my parents finished it off one weekend whilst I was at work. This has freed up a lot of space in the utility room where we had a growing pile of gardening stuff.

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